Scripture Reading: Proverbs 22:6
“Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.”
Introduction
Brothers and sisters in Christ, today we gather to reflect on an essential question: Where are your kids? Where are they in the physical sense, spiritually and emotionally within the house of the Lord.
Many of us remember the iconic public service announcement at 10 p.m. asking parents, “Do you know where your children are?” It was a call for accountability, reminding parents of their responsibility. Today, I ask you to apply that same question to our time in church. Do you know where your children are during the service? Are they with you, engaged in worship, or are they wandering, distracted, or disengaged?
- The Church as a Sacred Space
The church is not just another building; it is the house of God. It is a place of worship, prayer, and reverence. Jesus Himself showed us how sacred the temple is when He cleansed it, saying, “My house will be called a house of prayer” (Matthew 21:13).
When we enter this sacred space, we must model respect and teach our children to do the same. This is not the time for them to roam the halls, play on devices, or treat the church as a social hangout. It is our duty to ensure they understand the holiness of this place.
- Worship as a Family (No Matter How oId Are Your Kids)
One of the greatest gifts we can give our children is the example of worshiping together as a family. In Deuteronomy 6:7, God commands us to teach His Word diligently to our children—when we sit at home, when we walk along the road, and yes, when we are in His house.
When you come to church, come as a family, and stay as a family. Sit together, pray together, and engage in the service together. Children learn by observing their parents. If they see you worshiping with reverence, they will follow suit. There will be time for kids, teens, etc to socialize after the Holy Liturgy. Remind your kids about the primarily reason of being at church.
- Accountability and Mentorship
If your child is serving in the church—whether as a deacon, in the choir, or in any other role—your responsibility does not end there. Keep an eye on them. Encourage them when they do well, but also lovingly correct them when their behavior needs adjustment.
Jesus taught us to be shepherds, guiding and nurturing those under our care. Our children are our first flock. They need us to be present, to mentor them, and to hold them accountable.
- Jesus’ Example of Keeping Children Close
Jesus Himself showed us the importance of keeping children close. In Matthew 19:14, He said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.”
Jesus didn’t send the children away to play or occupy themselves. He brought them close, taught them, and blessed them. As parents, we are called to do the same. Keep your children near you in church. Teach them to listen, to pray, and to honor God.
- A Call to Action
Parents, I urge you to take a moment and reflect:
Do you know where your children are during the service?
Are they sitting with you, learning and growing in faith, or are they distracted?
Are you mentoring them, praising their efforts, and guiding their behavior?
Let us recommit ourselves to the sacred responsibility of raising our children in the ways of the Lord.
Conclusion
Respect for the church begins with us, and it extends to how we teach our children to honor this holy space. Let us not take lightly the privilege of worshiping together as families. Let us ensure that our children are not only physically present but spiritually engaged.
So, I ask you again: Where are your kids? Let them be with you, learning, growing, and glorifying God as we all should.